The programme looked manageable until Tuesday morning. Now five things you want are happening at the same time, and you have forty minutes to decide.
The Clash Is Not Bad Luck
It happens at every festival worth attending, usually around the middle days when the programme is running at full heat. You have five films — or four, or seven — mapped to the same two-hour window, and the satisfying illusion that you were going to see everything quietly collapses. This is not a scheduling failure. It is, in a perverse way, proof that you read the programme well: clashes happen to people who want too much, and wanting too much is the right instinct.
The problem is that most people resolve clashes by defaulting to the safest choice — the name they recognise, the film with the longest queue, the one their companion has already decided on. None of these is a decision framework. They are anxiety responses dressed up as preferences. What you need instead is a small set of signals you can run quickly, under pressure, before the window closes.
Priority signals
will this screen elsewhere, ever?
is one option on film while the others are digital?
how many times does each film screen across the full run?
a specialist crowd in a small room versus a general audience in a large one
The Signals That Actually Matter
Start with irreplaceability, not desirability. The question is not which film you most want to see but which one you are least likely to see under any other circumstances. A film from a country with thin distribution, a short that will never get a standalone release, a restoration screening of a print that travels rarely — these have a scarcity that should weight your choice heavily, regardless of how excited you are about the competition. The film with the buzzy director and the probable theatrical run can wait. The other one often cannot.
Second signal: format. If one of the clashing options is screening on film — 35mm, a vintage print, a preservation element — and the rest are DCP, that gap is real and it is not recoverable later. The difference between celluloid and digital projection is not a matter of personal preference or audiophile fussiness; it is a different perceptual experience of the same work. When a format is on the table, it belongs in your calculation.
Third signal: the nature of the screening itself. A world premiere carries different stakes than a third screening in a sidebar. A film playing once carries different stakes than one with four slots across the week. Check the repeat count before you commit to anything. Festivalgoers regularly pass on a singular event to catch a film they could have caught on Thursday, and then miss it on Thursday because something else clashed. The film with the fewest screenings almost always deserves the edge.
Fourth, and people underestimate this one: venue and audience. The same film in a small cinema with a switched-on crowd and in a barn of a multiplex with an indifferent one is not quite the same experience. Who is in the room with you matters in ways that are hard to predict and easy to feel. If you know the smaller, more committed screening is the alternative, factor it.
Once you have run those four signals — irreplaceability, format, scarcity of screenings, audience context — you will usually find that one option has quietly separated from the others. Not always. Sometimes two films are genuinely equal across all four axes, and then you do what you do when frameworks run out: you pick the one that frightens you slightly more, the one you feel less prepared for, because that unease is usually the programme telling you something.

The Cost You Keep Miscalculating
There is a cost to the film you choose, and a cost to the films you don't. People tend to feel the second cost immediately and the first one only later, if at all. This asymmetry warps the decision.
The film you walk away from will be discussed at dinner, quoted in the corridor, written about by the end of the week. You will hear about it. It will haunt the edges of the days that follow, as a minor but persistent absence. This is the experience people are most afraid of — the festival FOMO that drives bad decisions and produces half-exhausted schedules built around coverage rather than experience.
What they don't account for is the cost of switching: the film you do attend but cannot settle into because you are still conducting a mental autopsy on the decision to be there. Divided attention is not a minor penalty. If you spend the first twenty minutes of a film calculating whether you made the right call, you have not really seen twenty minutes of that film. The choice, once made, has to be made completely.
This is why clarity before the decision is worth more than speed. A rushed choice you then second-guess costs you both films — the one you skipped and the one you attended at half-attention. A slower choice you commit to costs you only the one you didn't pick, and even then, you might catch it in a later slot, or the following year, or eventually. Films have a way of returning.
There is also a version of the clash that is genuinely irresolvable — where you have thought it through, run the signals, and you still can't land. In that case: separate from your companion if you have one, cover both, and debrief afterwards. Two people attending different films and then talking about them in the foyer is one of the cleanest ways to get value from a festival, and it rescues both films from the collision. The conversation that follows is often better than either screening alone.
The cost asymmetry
The film you skip: haunts the days that follow, but is often recoverable
The film you attend half-distracted: costs you both films
Practical takeaway: a slower, committed decision beats a fast, second-guessed one
After the Decision
The choice locks when you are inside the cinema, not when you leave the foyer. One of the minor arts of festival-going is learning to make a decision and not revisit it for the next ninety minutes. This sounds straightforward. It requires practice.
What helps: arriving early enough to settle, getting a seat you actually want rather than the first one available, and treating the opening minutes as the reset they are. The films you didn't pick are not in this room. The one you did pick is the only thing on screen.
When it ends and you are back in the corridor, then you can run the post-mortem — ask what you heard about the other screenings, decide whether a repeat slot is worth chasing, figure out whether the clash resolved the way you thought it would. Sometimes your priority signals were exactly right and you feel clean about it. Sometimes you learn something about your own preferences that adjusts the next call. Both outcomes are useful.
What you are building, across the days of a festival and across the festivals of a few years, is not a method but a calibration. The decision framework is just the scaffolding. What you are actually accumulating is a more accurate sense of what you value — scarcity over comfort, experience over coverage, the film that will be gone tomorrow over the one that will still be there in six months. Clashes clarify that. They are the programme asking what you actually came for.
Answer honestly and you will lose less than you think.
